Episode Transcript
[00:00:00] Speaker A: Foreign.
[00:00:09] Speaker B: The podcast for those who find themselves immersed in adversity and choose to write their story instead of having others write it for them. I'm Drew Duraney and I'm your host. Today's guest is Pramilia Parham. Pramilia Parham has been blessed with a vision to educate the world to be a proactive wellness society by creating the Healing Institute, Inc. The Healing Institute, Inc. Is a global service provider bringing together practitioners and clients to support proactive holistic wellness throughout the world. The Healing Institute, Inc. Is unique in that it will be the bridge between clients and practitioners providing proactive wellness solutions, holistic health practices and education for clients and practitioners. Our proactive approach is the bridge that is needed to address and support health care that is currently not being met. Our customized whole person methodology gives clients hope for their wellness plan. Clients health concerns are taken seriously and are offered solutions to support their well being. Pria Parham is a teacher and practitioner of emotional and energy healing. During the 20 years of studying and through her own personal practices, Pria realized many people were not aware that their emotions affected them physically. Through her company, Vibrational Healing. As a certified body code and emotion code practitioner, she offers sessions to release unprocessed negative emotions for better health and success in life, provides individual consultations and teaches strategies on how to expand self awareness and be empowered to make positive life changes. Enjoy the show Amelia. It's great to see you.
[00:02:01] Speaker C: Oh, wonderful to be here, Drew. Thank you so much for inviting me.
[00:02:05] Speaker B: Oh, absolutely. And I have to say this is the first recording of 2025 of from caving. From Caving into Crushing it. You are episode 119 and I'm looking forward to you kicking off a new season.
I always like to thank the individual who introduced us and in this case it was Jacqueline Zaccoli. So Jacqueline, thank you very much for introducing the two of us. There was A and why and we now know why.
So. So thank you. Always appreciative.
In life, you know, we're, we're taught growing up and it's not a malicious teaching. We're taught that life is linear, right? We're told if you do all the right things, A, B, C and D in that order, you know, E is going to happen. And for the most part life is linear until it's not. You know, something comes across in front of us and kind of gets in the way of one of those letters and kind of derails our life. And now we got to secur this route. We've got to navigate and when that happens, we find out kind of who we are, and we can be any one of three women, let's say, for your sake. So you can be woman number one, who's got all these blind spots, doesn't even notice the stuff around her, and just lives life the way these external circumstances take her. And that's the way it is. And then there's woman number two, who has a heightened self awareness, notices the adversity, yet plays the blame game and says, I'm the victim. Life's happening to me. And she goes through her life saying, it is what it is. I have no control. And then on her deathbed, she's got a ton of regrets in life. And then there's woman number three, and that's you. And that's who I have on this show. That's the woman who has even more of a heightened awareness, yet she wants to do something about it. And she sees an external circumstance as an opportunity rather than a barrier. It's life doing it for her. And she says, you know what?
[00:04:03] Speaker C: What?
[00:04:03] Speaker B: No, no, no. I'm sick and tired of being sick and tired. I'm going to do something about this, become a stronger person on the other end, other side. She does become stronger.
If you would do this for us, think back as far as you need to for that defining a moment in life that changed you from whatever woman you were to woman number three. Whether it was the whisper in the earth, tap on the shoulder, or like I needed the 2x4 upside the head to kind of wake me up. What was your defining moment in life? Take us through that.
[00:04:38] Speaker C: Well, thank you, Drew. That's a great question.
I would say probably around almost 30 years ago now, but about 25 years ago, I was just really unhappy in the situation I was in.
I had been in, you know, corporate, corporate jobs. I had been fairly. I had been very successful in my career. I was now a mom, and which is, I wanted to be a mom so badly, but there was something inside me that just wasn't happy. And I'm. I'm a fairly happy person. So I knew I had to reach inside. I knew it wasn't, you know, if you'd seen my, me in my life at that time, I had a lovely home.
I had, you know, I had everything that people would think, well, why is she not happy? Like, you know, but it was all external. And so when I. When I realized my joy was gone, I really had to. I really had to. And I knew the only place I was going to find it was Inside.
So I was searching for something. I didn't know what it was going to be. And fortunately, I was introduced to an amazing woman who I call my energy teacher.
Now, I knew a little bit about vibration, and I knew, you know, I kind of had an idea about vibration and energy and, you know, the law of attraction, But I didn't have the sort of specific language around intuition. And.
And so she taught me that, and she taught me how to balance my chakras. And I was in a workshop. She put on a number of workshops with other people in the class.
And everyone was really learning from her about how we. How we need. What we need to do to actually find that inner joy.
[00:06:44] Speaker A: Okay.
[00:06:45] Speaker C: And then.
And then what are we going to do with it?
So I, at the time had a company. I had left my corporate job and I had had an event planning company.
[00:06:59] Speaker A: Oh, okay.
[00:07:00] Speaker C: Yeah. So I did corporate events and I was, you know, doing quite well. And still I had this. I had this feeling that I wasn't. I wasn't completely. There was something missing.
[00:07:14] Speaker A: Sure.
[00:07:15] Speaker C: And so studying under her. I ended up studying under her for eight years.
[00:07:19] Speaker B: Wow.
[00:07:20] Speaker C: And just really was able to understand healing. Healing. I knew I needed to be healed.
[00:07:28] Speaker A: Yeah.
[00:07:29] Speaker C: Just from the circumstances that I had been in.
[00:07:31] Speaker A: Sure.
[00:07:32] Speaker C: And finding that healing and finding it. Finding I could heal myself.
[00:07:36] Speaker A: Yes.
[00:07:37] Speaker C: Which we're not taught.
[00:07:38] Speaker B: Oh, no, we're not.
[00:07:39] Speaker C: You know, we're taught if. If there's something wrong with you, physical, emotional, mental, whatever, you go to look outside.
[00:07:45] Speaker A: Yeah.
[00:07:46] Speaker C: And they'll fix it.
[00:07:47] Speaker A: Right.
[00:07:47] Speaker C: So just learning all about how I really did have a lot of my own way. I did have that integrity. I. I did have that strength, which I had. I had lost.
[00:08:03] Speaker A: Yeah.
[00:08:04] Speaker C: And, you know, when you're talking earlier about the aha moment and being.
And, you know, having life work for you rather against you.
[00:08:14] Speaker A: Right.
[00:08:15] Speaker C: One of the very clear things I learned was that whatever I. All my situation, I had attracted it, whether good, bad, or indifferent.
[00:08:26] Speaker A: Right.
[00:08:27] Speaker C: Good. You're always celebrating while I attracted that. That was good. And then what? What. But the learning point here was the not so good that I had attracted was for me to learn.
So right away, that takes all the blame away.
I've attracted it. I can't blame anybody else.
[00:08:47] Speaker B: Right, Right.
[00:08:48] Speaker A: Yep, that's true.
[00:08:49] Speaker C: Knowing that it was just for me, it's a lesson. It was a lesson for me to learn. I needed. I needed to raise my level of consciousness. For whatever reason, what was showing up for me was what I needed. And really, I wouldn't be doing the work I'm doing today if it wasn't for that, studying that with her. I didn't even know I was going to be doing this. She predicted it. And I said, excuse me, I'm going to what?
[00:09:18] Speaker B: Well, it's also, you were open to it if you weren't, if you weren't willing to open up and you were ready for it. Sometimes people suggest something and it may not be the right time, you know, and sometimes we never know what the right time is. It just, it hits us. So you were ready, you were ready for a change, and that was the right change for you.
And I love how you talk about how it comes from within, the healing.
And now have you seen in your travels that people with low confidence, self confidence, a weak identity, self identity, is it more difficult for them to realize that they heal from within? Are those the ones usually looking outside?
[00:10:05] Speaker C: Oh, absolutely. And as a society, we're taught that true, right? We're taught to get pleasure is in the things we have, what we accumulate, our, you know, our homes, our cars, our tangible things. We're taught that's. We're raised that way.
[00:10:21] Speaker A: We are.
[00:10:22] Speaker C: And, and that so is not true because if you don't have that inner joy, right, you can't have outer joy. And that's what I learned from her. So I had moved cities, I'd moved to Vancouver island, where I live now.
[00:10:36] Speaker A: Okay.
[00:10:36] Speaker C: And I was, you know, working at a resort. And I was just joyful because I loved what I was doing, right? Right where I was working, I loved where I was living. And my co workers one day said to me, what's up with you? You're always so happy.
[00:10:50] Speaker A: Yeah.
[00:10:52] Speaker C: So I tried to explain to them what, you know, that I, I had studied energy and I'd studied vibration. They kind of looked at me, you know, like I had two heads, but they were very open and they said, oh, we need to know how to do this. So I was, you know, very excited to let my, my teacher know that what she predicted was going to come true.
[00:11:16] Speaker B: It was going to come true.
[00:11:17] Speaker A: Right?
[00:11:17] Speaker C: But it was because that joy was from coming out from me, inside me, into who I was.
[00:11:24] Speaker A: Right.
[00:11:24] Speaker C: And so I was that person.
[00:11:26] Speaker B: Now, now, grow, growing up, did you at times just have feelings that you could tell you not. Sometimes when you walk into a room, people say, looking, you can cut the tension with a knife or you can feel or somebody walks in. And it goes from a good environment to a bad environment. I mean, that's the energy piece. Do you have certain feelings that you could tell that stuff, but. But it didn't, like, click. That maybe you had that ability.
[00:11:49] Speaker C: Well, I. I was very. A very sensitive child my whole life.
[00:11:54] Speaker B: Okay.
[00:11:55] Speaker C: You know, I often say now, what you. What you got in trouble for as a child is your gifts.
[00:12:00] Speaker A: Yes. Yes.
[00:12:01] Speaker C: I was very sensitive. I was always being. Don't be so sensitive. I was always asking questions. I've always been very curious.
[00:12:09] Speaker A: Right, right.
[00:12:10] Speaker C: To know. Wanted to know what was happening or just wanted to know more.
[00:12:13] Speaker A: Sure.
[00:12:14] Speaker C: And so I. Now that I look back on my life, I can. I can identify those feelings. I can. I can identify when that energy was showing up in either a negative or a positive way.
[00:12:29] Speaker A: Okay.
[00:12:31] Speaker C: I think I was just in. In. In the soup and living it at the time. So. And I was young, so I. I didn't have the language for it. That's what. That's what I'm so grateful for this teacher who. My energy absolutely. Is that she gave me the language so that I can now verbalize.
[00:12:48] Speaker A: Yeah.
[00:12:48] Speaker C: What's happening.
[00:12:49] Speaker B: No, absolutely. You mentioned something before about blame. And, you know, I often think about how, like, in this society now, there's so much inner turmoil people have with whether it's anxiety or depression. And from knowing that I've suffered from depression and anxiety and a battle of mental health and doing some research. I mean, what I see is that if you are depressed, there's a good chance you regret a lot of stuff from the past. And if you're anxious, you're afraid of a lot of stuff from the future.
So getting to that blame piece, at least for me, it helped that when I stopped blaming myself for bad decisions and all that because I didn't have the tools at the time to make a better decision or I stopped. I forgave other people for. They not know what they, you know, they don't know what they did or something like that. Once I. I got rid of the, you know, I forgave people. I got rid of that regret. The depression kind of alleviated a little.
Where's the connection for you and what you do and how you're able to help people lift that blame from the past? You know, with. Because we're going to get into the body scan stuff that you do because it's. It's fascinating. Give me that correlation between depression and what you do and how to help people with the. Getting rid of the blame.
[00:14:06] Speaker C: Well, you know, first of all, I have to agree with you, Drew. We are harder on ourselves. We may blame others, and there Is one of the trapped emotions that's on the chart is blaming. And I often say to people, you know, it comes in three pieces, actually three parts. One is you're blaming someone else for something. One you're feeling you're being blamed for something. The one that usually really gets us is when we blame ourselves.
[00:14:32] Speaker B: Blame ourselves.
[00:14:33] Speaker A: Okay.
[00:14:34] Speaker C: So we need to release that blame because it's happening for a reason. And if people can understand that reason is just as a lesson, a learning lesson. And not, not to take it personally, just take it as a lesson. Okay. It's here. Something. Something is, you know, I mean, I left a 20 year marriage, which was a shock to me.
I just, I didn't think that that would ever, ever happen.
[00:15:03] Speaker A: Right.
[00:15:03] Speaker C: And you know, at times when I went, Wow, 20 years, I should really stick it out, like 20 years.
But I was, I was so unhappy. I was looking at it from, okay, well, why, why in this situation?
[00:15:19] Speaker A: Yeah.
[00:15:20] Speaker C: As soon as I stopped blaming myself.
[00:15:22] Speaker A: Right, right.
[00:15:23] Speaker C: Stop blaming my husband, Stopped blaming the situation I looked at, okay. This is a circumstance. This is a circumstance. It's giving me the opportunity to heal when I need to heal.
[00:15:35] Speaker A: Okay.
[00:15:36] Speaker C: And again, I would not be doing what I'm doing today if I hadn't had.
[00:15:40] Speaker B: Yeah.
[00:15:41] Speaker C: Dark night of the soul or whatever.
[00:15:43] Speaker B: I'm doing a little math in my head and I want to see if there's a correlation. So, like when you were thinking about removing yourself from the marriage and all that stuff, at what time was that? Was that during the corporate time, when you met the coach, during the event planning? Like, at what stage did that happen? Because there was a transformation in your life at some point. So I'm seeing if they're around the same time.
[00:16:08] Speaker C: You're, you're very, you're very astute. Yes.
So I started studying with my energy teacher and within a very short period of time, I was reading more books about how I could look at my situation in a different way more. A more healthy way.
[00:16:29] Speaker A: Right.
[00:16:30] Speaker C: And it was really her support, the support I had from her and friends that gave me the courage to actually take that leap away from that 20. 20 year relationship.
[00:16:45] Speaker A: Right.
[00:16:45] Speaker C: Longer than that, but the relationship. But legally married for 20 years. So.
So that was very, very. It was happening sort of together at the same time.
And so to answer your question, yes, it was more of a realization.
[00:17:04] Speaker A: Okay.
[00:17:05] Speaker C: Of, of where I wanted to be and, and the kind of person I wanted to be. And I couldn't stay in that relationship because that relationship was bringing me down.
[00:17:15] Speaker B: Interesting. Okay. So you, you said about the type of woman you wanted to be. So let's, let's think about that and we think about fear of the future.
When you realized the type of woman you wanted to be and what you needed to do to be that woman getting out of the marriage, did that alleviate the fear of the future? Because you knew. Because I'm thinking if people don't know their purpose or why and everything and they get away from something that they're accustomed to and comfortable with, there's a lot of fear what's going to happen.
You probably had some confidence in, in yourself. Comfort. Comfort in your own skin, right?
[00:17:54] Speaker C: Yes.
[00:17:54] Speaker B: It took away a lot of the fear. Tell me about the. If you felt fear for the future, if you were okay with everything.
[00:18:00] Speaker C: Actually, I, it was euphoric.
[00:18:02] Speaker B: Okay.
[00:18:02] Speaker C: Yeah, it was like a huge weight had been lifted off my shoulders because I was really trying to make this other person happy. And as we know, you can't make somebody else happy. They have to make their own. Them own selves happy. And it wasn't until I realized that that person's happiness was not my responsibility.
[00:18:22] Speaker B: Beautiful.
[00:18:23] Speaker A: Okay.
[00:18:24] Speaker B: And, you know, a lot of us do grow up and become adults who do the same thing that we, we don't believe that we're in control of our own happiness. You know, I still struggle with that. You know, it's like that, that we don't need a tangible, you know, toy or whatever to. To be happy. We can create our own happiness. Now how we.
Is very important because we've got to kind of shift our mind because the definition of happiness, we were taught growing up is very different from reality a lot of times.
[00:19:00] Speaker C: Oh, very true. Absolutely. And, you know, I mean, I always encourage people that I speak to or my clients to have a practice, whether it's, whether it's a meditation practice, Yoga practice.
And I do mine first thing in the morning. I get up first thing in the morning. I have, I get up early because I want to have that time. I see a lot of clients during the day, so I want to make sure that my energy is grounded and that I'm grounded. And so I do, I have, I have a yoga meditation practice. I do. I'm of course, a miracle student. So I study my. Make my tea and then I, I study my lesson for the day. And that really sets my day. And I really encourage people to do something like that. Whether you write in a journal thing in the morning or your gratitude or whatever.
[00:19:51] Speaker A: Right.
[00:19:52] Speaker C: Whatever works for you. Sure. You know, one, one Cookie cutter fits.
[00:19:56] Speaker B: All right.
[00:19:57] Speaker C: But it's so important to have that space and to do that rather than jumping out of bed, looking at your email, looking at your phone. As a matter of fact, I don't even have my phone in, in my bedroom.
[00:20:08] Speaker B: Yeah, I, I need to move it away from my bed. What do you use as an alarm to wake up?
[00:20:13] Speaker C: Oh, I have a little alarm clock.
[00:20:14] Speaker B: And it's. And that's near your bed, but the phone's not. See that? I have to go buy an old fashioned alarm clock because that's what I phone is, the alarm clock. And the first thing I do, it's, I find myself looking at email and the, the incessant scroll on social media and it. That affects your brain in the morning.
[00:20:31] Speaker C: Absolutely.
[00:20:31] Speaker B: I learned. Right.
[00:20:33] Speaker C: And your whole energy aura affects how your rest of your day is going to be.
[00:20:39] Speaker B: All right, well, I'm gonna go buy an alarm clock after we get off this call. Crazy. So I have a question for you. I'm looking at your backdrop there, and I love it says, we get well and stay well together. Now, Even though that's 1, 2, 3, 4, 5, 6, 7 words, each word's important. So we've got we, which means collective, get well and more importantly, stay well together. Can you. Let's dive deep into that because I know that's the heart and soul of the Healing Institute. And we'll get into the healing Institute. Tell me about that phrase and how that, how that really exemplifies what you do and who you are.
[00:21:19] Speaker C: Oh, thank you, Drew. So we are a community.
We're not just a directory. And the way I say that the Healing Institute differentiates from other wellness directories because there's lots out there and you know, some of them are really good, is that we are a community.
[00:21:38] Speaker A: Okay?
[00:21:39] Speaker C: So we see our clients as a community. We're a community together. We want to, we want to help our clients heal in whatever they need. And the practitioners that are part of the healing institute, we. We get to know each other. So when a client comes to, let's say they want to do body code work with me, I know all of the other practitioners and what they offer. So I can say to this client, well, you know, you've just done this with me, but we have an amazing conscious breathing facilitator. We have another person who does Egyptian reiki. You know, we have someone who's a boundaries coach.
They need that. So we get, that's where we. Why we get to get, get well and stay well together. Because we see not only the practitioners that are part of the healing institute, but also our clients that are coming to us for help. We see us all as a community.
[00:22:39] Speaker B: You mentioned boundaries that. You mean, like, protect. Like protect yourself and have boundaries in. In life about what you let in your life and what you don't. So I love that because many people will come and. And say, this is the issue, and it's usually not the issue. You peel back the onion, dive deeper, and boundaries often are the issue. And now you're able to then pinpoint somebody who's an expert in that and direct people towards that. I think that's fascinating. They're able to drill down that much to the root cause and address it. And I think that's important because most medicine nowadays addresses symptoms and not the root cause.
[00:23:22] Speaker C: And that is. I'm so glad you said that, because that is really why our allopathic medical, you know, that what we've grown up with for the last 50 years.
[00:23:34] Speaker A: Yeah.
[00:23:35] Speaker C: Why it's broken.
[00:23:36] Speaker A: Yeah.
[00:23:36] Speaker C: Why it's not working.
[00:23:37] Speaker A: Right.
[00:23:38] Speaker C: Because they only dealt with symptoms. They didn't deal with the root cause. And so this particular coach that I have on the platform.
[00:23:47] Speaker A: Yeah.
[00:23:47] Speaker C: You know, we say, okay, how many times have you said yes to something you really didn't want to say yes to? You know, are you saying yes to something because for many reasons you want to be liked. You can't say no to that person for whatever reason.
And so really, that's. That's defining the boundary about who you are.
[00:24:09] Speaker A: Absolutely.
[00:24:10] Speaker C: What you need. Because if we don't put those boundaries in place, we're, you know, we're going to be not only unhealthy physically, emotionally and mentally, but we're. We're just going to be at somebody else's beck and call.
[00:24:26] Speaker B: Absolutely.
[00:24:27] Speaker C: Which isn't going to make us no. Or keep us healthy.
[00:24:31] Speaker B: That's how we lose our authenticity when we do stuff. Because other people want. And I think authenticity is what this world's craving right now. So, you know.
[00:24:40] Speaker C: Of course. And you know, that is something that we have to learn. And that's why you have to go in.
[00:24:44] Speaker B: No, absolutely.
[00:24:45] Speaker C: Because we have to know. We have to find out who we really are.
[00:24:48] Speaker B: Absolutely.
[00:24:50] Speaker C: I remember just before I started my healing journey, I read a book about purpose.
[00:24:56] Speaker A: Okay.
[00:24:56] Speaker C: Now, up to that point, I thought my purpose was to be a good wife and a good mother.
[00:25:00] Speaker B: Yeah, right, right.
[00:25:02] Speaker C: I didn't. It wasn't until I read this book that I was like, oh, there's. I can. There's another purpose I can have. And so that was kind of the beginning of my, of my journey of starting to be more self aware and thinking that and, and, and where that's led me is that I now want to serve. I now want, I'm, I say every morning, what to God, what would you have me do? Where would you have me go? What would you have me say? Into whom?
[00:25:29] Speaker A: Beautiful.
[00:25:29] Speaker C: You know, that is where. And that's where I believe we as a community of healers on the, with the Healing Institute, we, we all are looking for, to be in service. And as a matter of fact, our, our, our motto is service with love.
[00:25:48] Speaker B: Love that. All right, let's, let's go into the service with love. Let's say somebody would like to become a clinician within the institute. Walk me through the process. How does that work?
[00:25:59] Speaker C: Okay, well that's great because I meet a lot of people, I'm in lots of networking organizations and I meet a lot of people on Zoom. And so when I have decides, okay, well I really am interested in this person and the modality they have, I'd like to invite them to consider being part of the Healing Institute. So we do, we do a little Zoom. I invite them to come on Zoom, we have a little conversation and I take them through, you know, give them a tour of the website, explain how that all works, and then I have an onboarding questionnaire. So it is an onboarding process. I take people through and I say to them at that Zoom meeting, if you think you might be that this is a good fit for you, then I have an onboarding questionnaire. It's a fillable eight page form that lets me get to know a little bit about you.
[00:26:51] Speaker A: Right.
[00:26:51] Speaker C: Clients that you're doing and all of the practitioners. I just have to, you know, I have to mention this, all the practitioners have their own businesses.
[00:26:58] Speaker A: Okay.
[00:26:59] Speaker C: Being part of the Healing Institute is giving them that global reach.
That's, that's why they want to be part of the Healing Institute. They have their own businesses, a lot of them have their own client space.
And then to be part of our online platform, worldwide online platform, which I'm also doing the marketing to bring, bring people to it for them is just to give them a bit more of a global reach. So I'm, it's not, it's not a fit for everybody.
[00:27:28] Speaker A: Right.
[00:27:28] Speaker C: And I'm okay with that.
[00:27:29] Speaker A: Sure.
[00:27:30] Speaker C: I just say, you know, if you're interested, I've got this form, please, you know, fill it out and once you fill it out and I get it back. Let's have another zoom. Let's make sure that it's a win. Win for everybody. That's one of my values.
[00:27:42] Speaker A: Right.
[00:27:42] Speaker C: It has to be a win for the practitioner, obviously, a win for the client, and a win for my company, because.
[00:27:47] Speaker B: Of course. Of course. And now with those wins, I know you've made it affordable to become that. So let's say you're ready to bring somebody on. What is the financial commitment for somebody who wants to be. Come on.
[00:28:00] Speaker C: Okay, great.
So what I've decided for this year is that I'm going to charge. I'm charging a setup fee. What I call a setup fee.
[00:28:09] Speaker A: Yeah.
[00:28:10] Speaker C: To get the profile, the headshot, all the information about modalities and costs and price and how long they are, etc. That takes me about three or four hours.
[00:28:19] Speaker B: Okay.
[00:28:20] Speaker C: Now, I hadn't done this before the last year. I hadn't offered a setup fee.
[00:28:25] Speaker B: Yeah, no, it makes sense to that.
[00:28:28] Speaker C: And so, but with that setup fee, you get the first two months, membership fee included.
[00:28:35] Speaker B: Okay.
[00:28:36] Speaker C: So it's a $200 setup fee, and everything is in US dollars because we're an international company.
[00:28:40] Speaker A: Right, right.
[00:28:41] Speaker C: So you get the first two months, and then after that it's $97 a month.
[00:28:46] Speaker B: That's reasonable. Wow.
[00:28:48] Speaker C: And I ask for a commitment. I do write up. It's not really a contract, but it's an agreement that they'll stay on the site for six months, of course. So they get the first two. First two free, and then the next four months they pay 97.
[00:29:03] Speaker A: See that?
[00:29:05] Speaker B: And that. And that's. That's a value because, like, it. That's a win, win, win. All aboard. So I just wanted to bring that up so people had an idea. So when they do reach out to you. Yeah, no, absolutely, because I'm gonna get. I'm gonna to tell them how to reach out to you shortly. The last thing I want to talk about before we get to the last couple questions I want to ask you is tell us about the whole. You mentioned the term body code. Now, I'm familiar with it because you were kind enough to go through it with me last week or the week before, which was amazing.
Do the basic 101. What is the body code? The correlation between physical feelings and what body part it comes from and all that kind of stuff, because it's really, really cool.
[00:29:46] Speaker C: Okay. Thank you.
So to give kudos where they should belong, the body code was created by Dr. Bradley Nelson. So listening can Google him or the Body code or the emotion code, because it's all. The emotion code is just the chart that Dr. Bradley Nelson put together. And what really resonated for me when I learned about this was because I'd already done that learning with my energy teacher about, about chakras, about our electromagnetic field, which is our aura, about vibration. So I already had, you know, I was already very much in tune with those words and that kind of, that kind of education. And when I was introduced to the emotion code, which is the first level, it just made perfect sense to me. So we are looking at emotions and the chart has 60 of them.
[00:30:41] Speaker A: Oh, wow.
[00:30:42] Speaker C: We're looking at emotions that could be trapped in the subconscious. So I like to always use an analogy and a picture because that's how I learn. So think of an iceberg.
[00:30:53] Speaker A: Okay.
[00:30:54] Speaker C: So what's above the water is what's in our conscious brain. And what's below the water is what's in our subconscious.
[00:31:00] Speaker A: Right.
[00:31:01] Speaker C: And we're not taught about our subconscious. We're only taught that this cognizant brain knows it all. But you know, when you start to study and learn and find out there's actually, you know, our heart actually has the major brain. Not this brain communicates our heart. It's called heart brain coherence. And there's studies. There's a institute in California that actually studies that.
[00:31:24] Speaker A: Oh, okay.
[00:31:25] Speaker C: Yeah. And so it's called the heart math Institute. And, and so when we're, you know, we're considering all of that, we're looking at the subconscious, which is really true to who we are. We're looking at finding those trapped emotions by either muscle testing or using a pendulum, which again is energy. That's how I used a pendulum for years.
And that's true to who we are. Our muscles are very true to who we are. And then to release the trapped emotion, we use a magnet. Can be any kind of magnet. And if we're doing it over zoom like you and I did, you're giving me permission to connect with your subconscious. So I'm like your proxy. So I'm doing the work. So I just run it over my governing meridian, which connects to the electromagnetic field, which is our aura. It's true who we are. And so the magnetic quality of the magnet that I use and the electro connecting to the electromagnetic field is stronger than the trapped emotion. So that's what releases the trapped emotion.
[00:32:30] Speaker B: Unbelievable. I love it. And you know, I have a son who's got Crohn's disease. And so I was had Asked you like what inside, like what. What emotion could, you know, he has had? Because with the divorce, that affected him. So there was a. Some kind of tie between the abandonment issue and him having stomach issues. And so it's fascinating. It makes sense to me because I was a. I was an athlete when I went up to play ball and I got nervous, it was in the. In the stomach. It was. That's where it was. The butterflies, they call it. So I get your solar plexus.
[00:33:05] Speaker C: Yeah. All your emotions are.
[00:33:07] Speaker A: Yeah.
[00:33:07] Speaker C: And. And just to give people an idea about the emotions that are on the chart.
[00:33:12] Speaker B: Yeah.
[00:33:13] Speaker C: And how they can. And. And this is why it's so important to identify these emotions and release them out of the subconscious because you're releasing them out of your body.
And we don't want these emotions trapped in the body because they're going to create dis. Ease. We don't want that happening. So. So, for example, if you were feeling betrayal or heartache or insecurity, that could compromise the heart or the small intestine anxiety. People are very anxious right now about what's going on. So if you're worried you're feeling helpless, that could also imbalance the spleen and the stomach.
[00:33:58] Speaker A: Oh, wow.
[00:33:58] Speaker C: Okay, the next row is lung. The. The organs are lung and colon. So if you're feeling sad, if you're feeling grief, if you're having, you know, feeling in any kind of grief for any reason.
[00:34:11] Speaker A: Right.
[00:34:12] Speaker C: Or sorrow or feeling rejected.
[00:34:14] Speaker A: Yeah.
[00:34:14] Speaker C: That could compromise the lungs and the colon.
And if you're feeling angry or hanging on to that anger, sentiment, then the liver and the gallbladder are the organs that could be affected.
[00:34:27] Speaker B: Unbelievable. Yep.
[00:34:28] Speaker A: Yep.
[00:34:29] Speaker B: That's the tie. There's a tie to the. I was reading, kind of doing some research, but like 85% of physical ailments are due to unaddressed internal stress.
Right. We don't release it. And men are like dying younger, I believe, because we're told don't cry and there are toxins and tears. So we're told to keep those toxins in us. And then you release emotional toxins when you share or tell your story. And men don't do that either. So we are kind of choosing to keep it all in. And then we wonder.
Men in their 40s and 50s dying of heart attacks. I mean, Jesus, you know, so, yeah, more control over. That's why that whole woman and man number three, it's like, if you're aware of all of this, like the education you and I talked about, people need Education and guidance.
Yeah, that's what we're here to do.
[00:35:17] Speaker C: And I want people to know as well because I, I do a little Wellness Wednesday on YouTube and show, show that it's only a couple minutes but it's usually about an trapped emotion. And how would you know? How would you know you had this trapped emotion?
[00:35:33] Speaker A: Yeah.
[00:35:33] Speaker C: Well, our muscles, all of our muscles are connected to our organs and our glands. So you're going to feel some discomfort in a muscle first. Right. So if it's a back muscle or, or you know, the sides of your sides of your chest or your chest or wherever in your legs, even your leg muscles, there is a correlation between those muscles and whatever the organs are. And so that's why I make that correlation in my little Wellness Wednesday video. Which, which muscles are connected to which organs. And so that could, that's gonna, that muscle is going to tell you first if there issue before you and then you can address. Okay, what organ could it be?
[00:36:18] Speaker A: Got it.
[00:36:19] Speaker B: Well, this is a good segue because the, the audience certainly has captured the essence of Paria Parham and gu. You guys, you have to reach out to her. So the best way to get in touch with, with Pria is email. It's info at the Dash Healing Dash Institute.
Find her on LinkedIn as well. All right. It's, it's not her name though. It's the Healing Institute. Right.
[00:36:46] Speaker C: Or your user is my name.
[00:36:49] Speaker B: It is your name. Okay. So that. And then the website's the-healing-institute.com. right.
[00:36:55] Speaker C: And this QR code will take you.
[00:36:57] Speaker A: Oh good.
[00:36:57] Speaker B: Do the QR code.
[00:36:58] Speaker C: We'll take you directly there.
[00:37:00] Speaker B: And how do they do this Wednesday thing? Watch the Wednesday. Is that on YouTube or is that on. Where do you.
[00:37:05] Speaker C: It's on YouTube. Yes. And I have it YouTube channel.
[00:37:07] Speaker A: Okay.
[00:37:08] Speaker C: And they can just pop onto the YouTube channel. I usually do it fairly early in. Well, I'm on the west coast so it would be new. Where are you?
[00:37:16] Speaker B: You're in, you're in what part of Canada you said Vancouver.
[00:37:19] Speaker C: I'm in British Columbia, Canada on Vancouver Island.
[00:37:23] Speaker B: Okay. Okay. All right, so. So Wednesdays I can go. And it's your name on YouTube or is it the Healing Institute? Your name. Okay, do that. All right, so before we head out, I got got two questions I want to ask you.
[00:37:35] Speaker A: All right.
[00:37:36] Speaker B: First one is going to give you the opportunity. You're sitting down with 7 to 10 year old familia and you want to give her advice about life. What are you going to tell her?
[00:37:48] Speaker C: Not to be so serious.
[00:37:52] Speaker B: Easier said than done.
Oh, my goodness. Okay, all right. Not to be so serious. So enjoy life, man. All right, so that's. That's good advice. And now let's switch hats. Now you're sitting down with young businesswoman, young entrepreneur, familia. And when you give her advice about business, what are you going to tell her?
[00:38:15] Speaker C: Always be curious.
Always be asking questions, Always be doing your research that you can't do that enough as a starting out, as a first entrepreneur, or as you know, I've been entrepreneur for a number of years now. I'm still doing my research. I'm still asking questions. I'm still curious.
[00:38:34] Speaker B: I love it. So be curious and don't be so serious. Love it, love it, love it. Oh, my gosh. I'm a poet and I didn't even know it.
Well, familia, thank you so much for coming on, for coming into my life.
Jacqueline knew something when she introduced us. Please keep doing what you're doing. You are a huge benefit to society and.
And you and I are going to still keep in touch, so.
[00:39:00] Speaker C: Oh, absolutely.
[00:39:01] Speaker B: Absolutely.
[00:39:01] Speaker C: For sure.
[00:39:02] Speaker B: All right, so take care, everybody.
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