Show Notes
Here’s what you’ll learn about:
Meeting Introduction and Initial Context (0:00)
- Guest Andrew Beaulieu discusses the tough guy persona associated with the name "Drew."
- Host Drew explains the naming convention for his sons, choosing Andrew as a middle name to avoid confusion in doctor's offices.
- Drew thanks the networking group "Shared Connections" for introducing him to Andrew.
- Drew introduces the concept of life being non-linear and the importance of self-awareness in navigating external circumstances.
Types of Men and Self-Awareness (1:41)
- Drew describes three types of men: one with blind spots, one who sees external circumstances as barriers, and one who sees them as opportunities for growth.
- He emphasizes the importance of self-awareness in becoming a better person.
- Drew invites Andrew to share a defining moment that helped him transition from one type of man to another.
- Andrew reflects on his childhood and the unique position he had within his family, observing and learning from his siblings' interactions.
Influence of Spouse and Family Dynamics (4:36)
- Andrew talks about meeting his wife, who brought awareness to his blind spots and helped him see different perspectives.
- He describes the power struggle with his parents and how it led to setting boundaries and building healthy relationships outside the family.
- Andrew shares his experience of being the "black sheep" of the family and setting trends that were judged by his family.
- Drew and Andrew discuss the importance of boundaries and the impact of living in fear versus living in trust.
Transition from Dating to Marriage (9:15)
- Andrew recounts the evolution of his relationship with his wife, from high school sweethearts to a mature marriage.
- He describes how his grandfather's passing helped him find his voice and build a respectful communication dynamic with his wife.
- Andrew emphasizes the importance of communication in their relationship and how it has evolved over the years.
- He reflects on the transition from dating to building a home and family together.
Professional Journey and Family Business (11:59)
- Andrew shares his experience of working in the family business for 16 years and the traditional expectations set by his father.
- He describes the relationship with his father and the importance of earning respect and proving oneself in the family business.
- Andrew talks about the decision to leave the family business and the support he received from his siblings.
- He reflects on the importance of finding his own identity and the impact of his decision on family relationships.
Coaching and Consulting Career (15:17)
- Andrew explains how a change management coach helped him realize his potential and develop soft skills.
- He describes the impact of becoming a parent and the desire to be more present for his children.
- Andrew shares his decision to leave the family business to pursue a career in coaching and consulting.
- He emphasizes the importance of helping others and the fulfillment he finds in his new career.
Lessons Learned from Leaving the Family Business (19:05)
- Andrew reflects on the support and encouragement he received from his staff when he announced his departure.
- He discusses the importance of being authentic and living life under one's own terms.
- Andrew shares the emotional challenges of leaving the family business but also the sense of accomplishment and respect he gained.
- He emphasizes the importance of being oneself and the positive reception he received from his colleagues.
Advice for Younger Self (21:55)
- Drew asks Andrew what advice he would give to his seven to ten-year-old self.
- Andrew advises to always have fun and enjoy what you're doing and who you're doing it with.
- Drew asks what advice Andrew would give to his younger business self.
- Andrew emphasizes that business is about people and the importance of investing in oneself and others.
Closing Remarks and Contact Information (23:40)
- Drew thanks Andrew for being on the show and for the impact he has had on his life.
- Drew encourages the audience to connect with Andrew through his website and LinkedIn.
- Andrew expresses his appreciation for being part of Drew's life and the opportunity to share his story.
- The conversation ends on a positive note, with both speakers expressing mutual respect and gratitude.
To learn more about Andrew’s mission, go to his LinkedIn profile at https://www.linkedin.com/in/andrewbeaulieu/
or his website http://www.boldmovescoaching.ca/
Andrew’s Bio: Andrew Beaulieu
As a husband, father to 2 young daughters and former Vice-President of my family's construction business, I intimately know the daily pressures of corporate success and being present for your family.
As someone who worked over the course of sixteen years to climb the corporate ladder, and made the "necessary" personal sacrifices that come with that, only to realize that once I achieved my goals and had all the traditional metrics of success, that I was not fulfilled...I learned a few things:
1) Success and fulfillment are not always the same thing
2) Just because you are good at something doesn't mean that's what you should be doing
3) It's the small things in life that REALLY matter
I left my family business.
I wanted to be more present at home for my daughters, I wanted to be a present husband, and I wanted to recreate my relationship with my career.
I am now the CEO & Founder of Bold Moves Coaching & Consulting, where my mission is clear: to help executives achieve work-life harmony, to be present for their families without sacrificing their professional ambitions.
Through personalized coaching and strategic consulting, I partner with amazing entrepreneurs who are feeling 'stuck' and don't know how to show up for themselves, their families and their teams.
About your host: I'm Drew Deraney, the proud father of three children. For most of my life I've been concerned with what people thought of me and how I was supposed to act. I learned not to be my authentic self and instead became a people pleaser, a man wearing a mask.
In a 9-month span a few years ago, I endured four faith-shaking life events that caused me to question my existence.
I became determined to find a better way to live. Through intense self-reflection and awareness, I realized that in order to be happy, I must adhere to my standards of honesty, integrity and truth and needed to break free from the belief system that was anchored in me for close to 50 years.
I found my purpose and my mission in life. I've now become the man I know I am meant to be. My mission is empowering men ready to make a change to do the same.
My men's group and one-on-one coaching provide a safe space for men to share, without judgement, and transform. My male clients learn to release their inner greatness and stop self-sabotage, the #1 roadblock keeping them from reaching their goals.
HOW TO CONNECT WITH COACH DREW:
Website: https://profitcompassion.com/
Email: [email protected]
Book a Coaching Discovery Call: https://link.mavericksystems.online/widget/bookings/netweaving/connect30
Pick up a copy of Drew’s book: https://amzn.to/40dsbyR
